Okay so my ex broke up with me a little more than 4 months ago, and I blocked him FB, MSN messenger, and everything else I could think of. However, I forgot to block him from Yahoo messenger, because I never use it. Well, I was reading a site, and suddenly this bubble pops up with him talking to me! :O

He asked how I was, and I said, "Fine." I kept using short little answers, and he asked me why, and I went on to say that I don't have to tell him about my life if I don't want to. AND THEN! *drum roll please* I went on to say THIS!:



"Honestly, ___l, I have nothing to say to you. Remember how you said you could date me 10 years and not marry me? Well, I could know you for 10 years and still not want to be your friend. I'm completely over you, I don't want to be friends, and I don't want to know what's going on in your life, nor do I care. I actually want to thank you, because breaking up with me was the greatest thing you could have done for me.
So with that, I say thank you, and have a good life.
Goodbye, __."


I then deleted him and blocked him! I FEEL SO EMPOWERED AND PROUD! At first, I didn't think I could bring myself to say it, but I did! I DID! AHHAHAHAHHAA!

I know I'm definitely going to be okay, and that I'm healing up quite nicely, even though we had such a hard break up! THANK YOU TO EVERYONE HERE AT AMHD THAT HELPED ME THROUGH IT! :D

I'M FREE!!

That is wonderful and amazing.

You were incredibly strong when you needed to be.

Thank you so much!

I always thought it would be years before I would be able to say that to him!

When I first saw the bubble, I got this weird feeling; you know that feeling of false hope? I had the feeling that if I tried to be close as friends again, I would end up where I was before, and I didn't want that. That was such a sad state.

I may have been a little mean, but I had to look out for my heart, the same one he carelessly threw away!

Good job! Very proud of you

Thank you!

Feels good waving that middle finger don't it? They always say not to do that sort of thing but, meh.

Good for you! Hopefully others will learn from your example.

Awesome! :D

Torrid! :D
Torrid! :D
Torrid! :D

Thank you so much guys! My little brother told me he was going to bake me a huge chocolate cookie, my mom and dad hugged me and gave me high fives (I'm also getting a car soon, so that can count towards it, too!), and my friends are sending me texts/emails of congratulations!

I never thought in a million years I would be able to say that to him... it's truly amazing! I got to say the words that I had wanted to for so long... especially about the 10 years thing... that had bothered me so much, but I got the opportunity to to avenge myself! BUWAHAHA!

I'm so happy!

Good job,just don't relapse,because you got a small taste of your ex again.

When you feel like you want to write him/her

Just remember how bad they must be feeling now,reaching out and getting this.

Then go on with your day.

Lucky for me, that small taste of my ex made me angry and fraught with rage.

But I said what I had wanted to say for a long time, so now I don't feel so angry. I feel like I got it off my chest.

In all honesty... I hope he feels bad. That's probably not very nice, but him breaking my heart and throwing me away like I was nothing wasn't very nice.

He should feel bad. I loved him with everything I had. Not to be conceited, but even his parents said I was the best thing that ever happened to him. Oh well. I'm gone now, I'm having fun getting to know someone else, and a new life is being built up for me. He should feel bad he lost such a lover and the best friend he ever had.

Good for you Torrid , proud of you :)

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My little brother told me he was going to bake me a huge chocolate cookie,!

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Well here's a few chocolate cookies , you deserve 'em ;)

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*nibbles on cookies*

OM NOM NOM. You guys sure do know how to treat an NC-er well! :)<3

Thank you for your support!

Breakups.

It's an ancient Greek word that means freedom.


Sarah

I like the sound of that.


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