I have been having sex with this guy I have known for about six months. We have had sex 3 times, all without a condom. I am on birth control. Last time we had sex was two nights ago, I woke up cramping and noticed spotting of blood on my underwear as well as an off white discharge. Any ideas??

This could be a number of things. The first thing that comes to mind is that you bled some from the intercourse and well, the discharge shouldn't need to be explained.

Yes while of course it could be, it could be many things.

I wonder why are you scared, having sex causes you to be pregnant, esp if you are only using one form of birth control, since no one form is 100 percent. When we have sex we are always risking becoming pregnant, it is a "side effect" so to speak.

I understand that just because you are sexually active doesn't mean that you want children. But WHEN you are having sex you must know that that possibility is there. And having sex with "this guy" is going to get you into trouble, because if he's just some guy you aren't in a relationship with, do you really want to have a child with him? Why wasn't he wearing a condom?

Me and him are kind of together. Its just hard to explain what we are. Especially because there is a number of issues. There is a color issue that would cause many problems within my family and I'm afraid to make it official because of it. Idk. Just scared to see the outcome.

SO he is of a different race than you and the other man is the same race as you? In that case it might be obvious who the father is when the baby is born. I would still do a DNA test though.