Originally Posted by
crisluvsu731
Wow, I am going through pretty much the same thing. Is he abusive physically or mentally?
If it is physically then you need to get out now.
If it is mentally and you think he is worth is, I would seperate and go stay with a friend ( I am telling my self this as well!) for a while, and tell him that you need counseling or the relationship just won't work.
We were down to me leaving for good and he promised he would get counseling several times and when he saw my stuff packed up, he made the appointment right away, lets see if he keeps it. It's on Thursday, if he doesn't I am gone, for real this time.
You can't live your life walking on egg shells to make sure he is happy. You are the only person that you need to worry about. You can change you for the better, but he is the only one who can change himself. I would suggest you getting counseling as well, if he won't, at least you will be as well.
Good luck and best wishes!!!