Religion, sex, love and break up
OK I'm used to break ups with girls by now, and you give them their space and move on with your life, yadada... however this time I got involved with a very religious church going girl, and after a couple of sexual encounters... I noticed she was very hurt for what she did.. I said I would make changes since I care about her, but she said she wants to focus on God, and she wants to bring him into our lives so things work out for us in a spiritual manner in the future, and the she said she loves me, but don't think we are ready to date since we aren't doing it with the intent of marriage yet... This is something Im not used to dealing with during a break up, most girls just want to get you out the picture, not include you for a plan in the future. By the way, I do love this girl, but I don't know what the future holds, I could go along with this idea just to get hurt by her finding somebody else in the future(after all technically we aren't in a relationship anymore.) I also don't know how to act, no contact is usually brilliant, but its not like she doesn't want me anymore, won't that push her away? Should I act the way I was acting toward her before I was in a relationship? Or should I treat her like she's nobody special... should I still pick you p whenever she calls? I really don't know what to do and could really use some help.