So I've known this girl for about 1 year, and were really good friends. We do a lot of things together, and she always as fun when were hanging out together. So tonight me and her and 2 of her other really good friends went on a scavenger hunt. We had to take pictures of things so we had to use the camera on her phone, and she asked me to hold her phone, so I did. I remember back a while ago I was holding her phone, and she asked me to check a text and I saw my name in her phonebook as just my name. I know this may sound like stalker status, but I'm not like that at all. So today when I had to go through her texts to see the things we had to do, I saw my name in her phonebook and it had <3333 in it. I know this may not mean anything, but I thought maybe you guys would have a different look on it. She has a boyfriend and there's not even hearts next to his name. Does she like me, and just won't tell me? What do you guys think?

Even if she did like you,would you want to be with a girl so immature in her relationships,that she cheats?

If so enjoy the prize,but don't complain when the same thing happens to you.

I would confront her,as a joke,and ask what that meant.

Yea but she's not like that all. She's a different kind of girl, not one of those slu*** girls. Idk its weird just don't know what she means.

Um... im sorry but I don't see anywhere that says she cheated on anyone.

If she has a boyfriend, why are you worried about it?

Sometimes you guys forget that us girls are very affectionate, and she may have a <3 on her phone next to your name to show that she cares about you.

Did she have 2 people with the same name in her phone (your name) and maybe she was using the <3 to tell which one was which?

Honestly you guys need to not assume that a girl is a cheater or a slut or a 'prize' based on simple, stupid stuff.

I see NOTHING wrong with this at all, and I don't see a problem. Get over it and move on.

Am I missing something? Does <3333 mean something special in teen world?

To me it means less then three thousand three hundred thirty three.

If that's love, then I'm really confused.

Why not ask her?

Could that be her fast dial code?? Geez guy ask her what it means. Most time people use codes like this to keep nosey people from snooping.

Is this the same girl in your other two posts??

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So I've known this girl for about 1 year, and were really good friends. We do a lot of things together, and she always as fun when were hanging out together. So tonight me and her and 2 of her other really good friends went on a scavenger hunt. We had to take pictures of things so we had to use the camera on her phone, and she asked me to hold her phone, so I did. I remember back a while ago I was holding her phone, and she asked me to check a text and I saw my name in her phonebook as just my name. I know this may sound like stalker status, but I'm not like that at all. So today when I had to go through her texts to see the things we had to do, I saw my name in her phonebook and it had <3333 in it. I know this may not mean anything, but I thought maybe you guys would have a different look on it. She has a boyfriend and there's not even hearts next to his name. Does she like me, and just won't tell me? What do you guys think? Also I know that this is probably not the case but I'm worried that she may have just done that last night maybe just to lead me on. I doubt that's what she would do, but what do you guys think?

If she has a boyfriend it doesn't matter.

I put silly things next to my friends names, my boyfriend is just his name in my phone but a lot of my friends I give cute nicknames and stuff.

If she ever breaks up with her boyfriend then you can make a move but for now just stay friends.

Anyone else have any suggestions or thoughts?

Yeah, I'm sorry but if she has a boyfriend, even if she did like you, she's hands off until her and her boyfriend break up. Maybe you should try asking her about it.

I love all of my close guy friends and I have a boyfriend.

I sign all of my texts, Love Me :) also... I don't think you should read into this anything.

Boyfriend = unavailable.

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Hopefully you guys can help me out a little and give me a bit of advice, cause I've been really feeling down in the dumps these past couple of days. I really like this girl, and I have pretty strong feelings for her. I've known her for about 7 months and I really like spending time with her, and I'm pretty sure she feels the same way. Unfortunately she will be going away to college soon and we all know how that goes. Like I said before we hang out a lot I talk to her a lot and we often text each other everyday even if its only for 5 minutes. We also have many conversations on AIM each night and talk about each others day. She really is a nice girl. Every night before she goes to bed she'll give me that nice "goodnight" saying and may throw in a smile, and I'll message her the same thing back. She may also say that she'll text me the following day!! When I woke up today I looked at my phone and sure enough there was a text from her. I texted her for about the next hour and we had a good conversation and we would always reply with either a "LOL or a LMAO", basically the typical teen age stuff. I know this may sound pretty weird but she also informed me that yesterday while out with her friends she had "period". I guess that's a good thing though so I know not to make her mad. Well finally she stopped texting me for a little and I asked her another question about 30 minutes later and she texted me back. I knew something wasn't right though because it was plain, simple, one word answers. I didn't really think anything of it, until I was bored just about 30 minutes ago and I started thinking. Is she mad at me cause I'm texting her too much? I then thought well why should she be mad she always tells me that she will text me the following day anyway. I then thought well maybe its because she is on her period and she doesn't want to be bothered? I didn't know, and I was really thinking. I don't want a really good friendship break up because of stupid stuff like that. These past couple days have been kind of depressing as well, I don't know why cause I never felt like this, but maybe you guys can help me out and give me some advice. Is it because she has her period and may be annoyed at something?? Or am I just being a little pest?? Please let me know what you guys think, thanks for you help.

I think you would get a lot more answers by talking to her IN PERSON and not over a cell phone. You would be amazed at what a little inquiry will solve for you.

Anybody else have any suggestions?

You can keep right on asking... she still has a boyfriend, she isn't fair game.

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anybody else have any suggestions??

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I think we've given you all the suggestions there are. Now it's up to you.

Ask her, then leave it alone. She's taken!

Well what do you want us to say?

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Originally Posted by jenniepepsi

well what do you want us to say?

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Hmm... I don't think it matters.
We are telling him what we should say, as it is only smart to leave her alone as long as she has a boyfriend.
He probably wants us to tell him how to get her to leave her boy for him, and no one here is going to tell anyone how to make such a big mistake... I'm sure there are plenty of people who have done that (myself included) and KNOW how big of a mistake it is... and it'd be just as big of a mistake to tell him how to do it.

If not, it doesn't matter, we are still giving him the advice he needs to hear, but doesn't want. It's his choice to listen to it or not.

I agree she is taken and she may be interested in you but you have to be a gentleman and sit back until they happen to break up and she shows an interest in you.
Getting in the middle of a relationship is the worst thing you can do.

She likes you but don't date her she's going to cheat on u...