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  • Jul 18, 2009, 09:25 PM
    shekieah
    Friends Changing
    At first I thought I was relli good friends with these three girls but then out of the blue they kept sending me things on Facebook calling me bad names and they said I was fake! They went so far as to take a picture of a manican and they said "you're as fake as this manican" it hurt so ad then they said I was probably cryn right now.. which I was and I don't know what happened I haven't tlked to them a lot this summer and couldn't wait to tlk when school started I'm relli sadd right now and they also accused me of sleepn wit hese two boys at my school whiich never ever happened then when I tlkd to the boys they said no way they didn't say that and then when the boys confronted the girls the girls lied about it denying it now I'm sadd and don't know what to do
  • Jul 18, 2009, 10:44 PM
    sweet1028

    There's plenty of people that you can be friends with. Don't be depressed that these girls are immature and trying to make something of their life by trying to hurt you. Do Not act like it bothers you it just makes them happy that they accomplished what they were set out to do.

    If you act like it doesn't bother you they will move on to their next victim. In the meantime, find some good TRUE friends. Forget these girls and when you do go back to school and you have these new friends and they come crawling back... ignore them. It will hurt them worse knowing that you will deny their friendship than they are making you feel right now.

    Cheer up =D Life's a roller coaster, it has it's ups and downs. Always know that once you get through the downs, it always looks up again. Good Luck!
  • Jul 18, 2009, 10:44 PM
    Alty

    Ouch.

    Your post is really hard to read.

    Could you retype it without using text talk? Text talk/chat speak is against the rules here. Also, you won't get many answers, most of us are too old to learn how to decode this.

    Good luck.
  • Jul 18, 2009, 10:46 PM
    jenniepepsi

    They don't sound like 'very good friends' to me. I would put them on ignore on your facebook/myspace/twitter/email etc. block them from your phone if you have one, and just don't associate with them anymore.
  • Jul 18, 2009, 10:53 PM
    Thesexyjessica

    Well I say find new friends. And try to clear up the mess without showing people that it gets to you.
  • Jul 18, 2009, 11:22 PM
    HelpinHere

    Find new friends.
    You said, (if I'm decoding this correctly) you THOUGHT they were really good friends. It sounds to me that you were just meeting people, hoping to sync.
    It doesn't work that way. You can't just meet someone, and expect them to become a perfect friend to you.

    Ditch these lying girls, and go find someone who you can really be friends with, quit picking losers, and work hard to pick a winner or two.
  • Jul 19, 2009, 07:12 AM
    Fr_Chuck

    Over the years, esp as teens, you will find not everyone who acts like friends are. Next actions tell us a lot more. Once they turn and show they are not friends, why are you concerned about them, they have shown their true colors

    Next I did not delete your post, since it was your first one, but on all future posts you will need to use real english or they will be deleted.
  • Aug 4, 2009, 01:21 PM
    emsy101pink

    Don't wait time worrying about these 3 girls. I'm sure there's plenty of other friends you could hang around with. If there going to be like that then let them get on with there own life. I'm sure you're a much better person than them!

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