Ok... you guys are confusing lol. Ive heard sooooo much about what guys like and then.. they change their mind. So.. what I really want to know is,what do you like? Or in other words "whats a turn on"?. So guys please tell me :rolleyes:

Hmm...
Just like girls, there are different "types" of guys. Every guy is different, and the things that attract us all varies.

Based on this, one can speculate that only one guy and one girl were ever "meant" for each other, as each guy has specific, different "turn ons" and unique, specific characteristics. The same goes for girls. To match these characteristics would be like fingerprints, only one match for each person.
However, being the optimist I am, I say that people can learn to accept and even love things which they used to not.


Now, on to an actual answer to your question, I'll tell you what I look for in a girl.

First, she has to be beautiful.
Yeah, I sound shallow, I know, but I'm honest. I always see a girl before I get to know her, so that is what naturally happens. However, I do not want a "hot" girl. I don't look for one that flaunts themselves out for the whole world to see, using tons of makeup and skimpy clothing to show themselves off. I look for the girl who is proud of what she looks like, and can just wear jeans and a baggy t-shirt and still appear attractive. No makeup necessary to draw my eye to her face. In short: Natural Beauty.

After that, I want a girl that matches my personality.
I like girls who are funny.
My sense of humor (which isn't very humourous to most) needs to match hers. She needs to understand my stupid jokes (not necessarilly think they're funny, but just understand them) and have the same that I get. Be willing to make fun of herself, me, and everyone else, in front of anyone, and not feel akward about it. The ability to understand, and dish out, perverted jokes occasionally (okay, I admit it, too often) is a must!
I like girls who are confident.
Confident with how they look (see point one) and not afraid of what others think. Confident in themselves, believing they are a good person. Not so "confident" that they are conceited, but not afraid to be themselves. The girl that will ride the merry-go-round in front of walmart because it will be fun, rather than smoke weed because her friends tell her it will be cool. Drug and alcohol free are a must. (in fact, I'm pissed at my girl right now because she got buzzed last night after promising me she wouldn't).
I like girls, who like me.
Call me self conscious, but I can never like a girl who likes me. I like myself, well enough. I need a girl who can accept me for my flaws, be willing to let me allow them into my life at a slow pace, and not freak out if they find out something in my mind... Yeah, I've freaky thoughts most of the time. XD She doesn't have to say "You're the sexiest guy I've ever seen!" In fact, I wouldn't like it. A girl who is willing to say "Sure, Edward Cullen is hot, but glitter gets sooo old! I like YOU just how you are!" or whatever...

Yep, that's about the main points... will post more if I think of them.

Well.. see the thing is,I totally understand what you mean about "meant for eachother" and stuff hehe
Well I'm pretty much the-girl-next-dorr type of deal.. but there are many unique things about me,and that's what always ruins it when I'm with a guy lol.. im pretty... well "different" haha and you know how people look for the other that is exactly like them? Well I don't what someone exacly like me you know? I need someone who will fill in the things I don't and make it fun being with him :D but at the same time but like me in a way... I know,I'm way to picky but hey that's just me lol..
Geez why do I always just keep blabbering about just... stuff? Lol sorry you had to read all this lol
But anyway thanks for repying! :D

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Originally Posted by taylor2012

geez why do i always just keep blabbering about just...stuff? lol sry you had to read all this lol

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Hmm... let's see...
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Yeah, and I had to read all of that, lol.
It's no problem, glad to help. Hope you get more answers to broaden your understanding of the male psyche... lol.

Well I'm not a guy but this question sounded fun to answer. I'd like to see if I kind of have a perspective of what guys want in a girl. =D

I think that a guy wants a girl that is not going to change him or attempt to make him into her "perfect" boyfriend. Someone who they can be themselves around and not feel like they have to be fake to impress their girlfriend.

A girl who is happy with who she is and not always complaining about what she is not. One that they can take out and meet the guys and not worry about her making them feel uncomfortable while they are around her. A girl who can laugh at herself if she falls, and doesn't care to break a nail.

I think that guys just want somebody that they can compare with. Likes doing things with them that are sometimes not that girly, but also can clean herself up to go out for dinner and a movie.

Who knows? Guys are hard to figure out sometimes. =)