OK in 6th grade -last year- I "dated" this guy named ryan and I thought he was the best person in the world... :p- but then at about the 4th month in our 6th moth realationship, things took a bad turn... he started getting really pusshy- you know- and wanting me to act I guess "older" around him- and you know what I mean right?? So I let it go on four about month and a half because I didn't want him to break up with me. I got tired of him so I broke up with him and now I regret it and I want him back- even though I'm almost in a relationship with a guy at my church. What do I do?? Its summer and I can't wait till 7th grade starts:D so yeah help...

Do you know how I know that you are to young to date anybody. This right here...

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Originally Posted by TheOnlyEmilee

but then at about the 4th month in our 6th moth realationship, things took a bad turn... he started getting really pusshy- you know- and wanting me to act i guess "older" around him-

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First if you can't even say sex then you have no business dating. Even if you can say sex doesn't mean you should be having it. What you need to do is being growing so that you can no feel guilty about breaking up with one guy and playing another if the guy you broke up with doesn't come back. That's adult behavior you are attempting to do and it's you who is so young that you don't know the damage you are doing by trying to pretend you are something you are not.

You are only in the sixth grade you shouldn't be worried about big time relationships and definitely not sex. You will probably have 15 or 20 more breakups and broken hearts before you find the right guy. Then by that time you should be grown up to know a little bit more than you do now.

When you are old enough and that special someone in your life at the time gets a little pushy as you call it now, get rid of him. If he's not willing to wait he doesn't love you anyway. Good Luck. Live a little, you are too young to be worried about a guy.

Wow I'm your age. And 7th should not be having sex. Not even have long relationships. We are young and shouldn't be having to worry about crap like this. You are way to young to even be considering stuff like this... not saying your to young to date anyone because face it everyone I no is dating but sex is a no no right now!

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Uhhh- is this OK?

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If you mean being pushed for sex, NO ITS NOT OK!!

You aren't dating, you may be boyfriend/girlfriend but not dating, and you may as well break up, since you have another victim-er- boyfriend in mind. You can't be more than 12, so I can't even move this to the "TEEN" forum.

Why are all you kids in such a hurry to grow up! :(

Slow down, you're still a child, stop playing around.

You're boy crazy right now, you need to take a few hundred steps back and realize that the road you're taking right now will end badly.

Stop it.

When you are all grown up you will want these days back. When you had no worries, and boys came and went, the beginnings of friendships that will last a lifetime, and love was just a 4 letter word. Don't grow up to fast because one day you are going to wish you didn't.

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Originally Posted by Red-Black-Green

im not the one whose trying to have sex!!!!!! God!!

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Are you the boyfriend? If yes... People a troll in our midst?

Even if this is a troll, I'm going to answer on the basis that this is a subject that I find important to address!

One thing is to be boy crazy at this age, but you can't call it dating.

And your not even a teen... and should not be thinking about sex, or dating (too young! ) or boyfriends! You should be thinking about hanging around and playing with friends, indulging in hobbies and having fun.

You got lots of time to grow up! LOTS! And once you have grown up, you will look back at this and realize that we are right... no matter how wrong you find us in the moment!

Since I can't PM the OP, or the troll who is answering her posts, this thread is closed.