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I want a way to dye my hair to a nice honey/golden blonde colour but I don't want to bleach it and I want it to be normal again in about six weeks or less.
Very tall order. It's not possible to dye black hair to honey blonde without using bleach.
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I like the brand Clairol Perfect 10.
Perfect 10 is a permanent haircoloring that uses strong peroxide. It won't lift black hair to honey blonde, either -- even if you select the honey blonde shade!
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I just need to know will it dye my hair lighter and will it come out in less than six weeks please help.
Yes, it will dye your hair lighter and no, it won't come out. It will have to grow out.
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Also will it come out quickly if I don't like it or if I dye over it will it damage my hair extensively or ruin the colour.
All hair dyes damage the hair -- at least a little bit. Often, the damage is unnoticeable. Dyeing over it is not easy. It takes a bit of skill and understanding of the chemistry involved.
One system of evaluating color puts hair lightness in 10 levels. A level 1 is black. Level 10 is very light blonde. There are lots of levels in between. This is only for lightness and not shade. The lightest that Clairol Perfect 10 can lighten black hair (using the lightest shade they make) is about a level 5, maybe darker. Natural Level 5 hair is medium brown. But, the medium brown you would get would have a lot of red in it!
For what you want to do, I suggest trying on wig. That's the only way I can think of that will work for what you want to do.