Id like to know the name of a movie... I'm not sure how old it is but it has a girl who has about a year to live and she has a list of things to do before she dies and she meets a boy who helps her by giving her a tattoo and taking her to stand in 2 places at once and marries her in the church her parents got married in... they were young and that's about all I know

Sounds like "A walk to remember", but I don't remember a tattoo.

A Walk to Remember (2002)