Will I been dating the same women for five years and she is the love of my life. When we just started dating when we had sex everything seem to be OK. But now for about two years when we have sex she tell me I feel to big and it hurts her. She love it when I go down on her and I like it to whatever make her feel good I love but we just don't do it the same or as much. I'm 32 and she 29 and we have sex ones a wee. I just one to know what you think. I love you so much and I just want to make this batter

That's a silly question.

Women, and men for that matter, don't like sex for a huge variety of reasons regardless of age, race or creed.

Perhaps if you were to be more specific with your issue, the responses from this forum could assist you better.

What's the problem?

I have always loved sex... all ages past and I am now 30.
I agree, it would be more appropriate to know the reason for the genaralization.

I think one needs to look at onesself when they find themselves making a statement like that.


I've been with plenty of women though the years, and I never saw any particular age group exhibiting what you describe.

Are you doing anything different now than before?
Also I think it hurts when the guy is like wam bam by nott getting you aroused to the point that it doesn't hurt first.

Once a week sounds like a good amount of time to be doing it.

If your not happy with this, talk to her. Possibly work something out.


Also, is it possible she has an infection? If she suddenly starts to feel that you are too big, she could be swollen 'down there' which could be caused by any number of UTIs (bladder infection, urethera infection) or another type of infection.

We talk about it and she don't know what happen she tell me. And as for the wam bam I always take my time with her. Even when she comes by me going down she still feet the same...

You should talk to her about seeing her doctor hon. This really sounds like she may have some swelling.

Swelling can also be caused by too much sex or not enough lubrication too. Could this be the issue?

Will I know its not too much sex but the lubrication part could be the issue I don't know. But some time we go a week or two we do it the swelling should go down right.. And this has been going on for two years now.

I should have quoted the OP, he heavily edited the post after I responded originally. He originally asked if it was normal that women in their late 20's did not like sex as a big portion of the question.

Maybe she needs a complete gynecological exam and see if she has an issue.