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  • Jul 16, 2009, 12:47 PM
    master88
    How to get back in the dating game?
    Its been 3 months since a pretty rough breakup. I'm tired of hoping she might want me back. I feel like I've been out of the game so long that I don't know how to approach women. Anyone got any tips, of how to approach women, like what to say etc.
  • Jul 16, 2009, 12:52 PM
    kctiger

    Good looks may get your noticed, but confidence gets you in the door. Simple process here. Being a guy, almost ANY girl will be attracted to a guy who is confident in himself. If you are a guy, follow my advice to getting yourself a "date" with a female you are attracted to:

    Walk up to them, BS with them and then ask for their number. Regardless of their answer, make sure you act like it didn't bother you at all. Their answer and their reaction should have ZERO effect on you one way or another. The key is to ensure that they know you can live with or without them! Maintain the attitude that you couldn't care less whether or not they gave their number to you...:cool: You make sure you keep it short and sweet, the less the better my friend!

    Confidence 101... for more tips, let me know, but I PROMISE you confidence is the key to dating, not being good looking. Girls want a guy who is confident of himself (not cocky) and isn't tripping over his own tongue around them.
  • Jul 16, 2009, 03:22 PM
    h_leann_b

    Its true, if a guy asks me with confidence, its so much more attractive. And don't be worried about getting turned down either. Sure, it happens. But it shouldn't effect the way you feel about yourself. There are so many fish in the sea. Be nice, friendly, compliment them.

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