Hey peeps, first question so go easy :P

Anyway, I split up with my fiancée 2 months ago and my god I've regretted it since.

Erm well basically my main reason for doing so is because I have a major problem were I lack confidence and when she told me she needed a break it screwed my head up so bad, obviously I thought the worst. (At this time as well I was having major family problems i.e. my dad splitting up with my mum). When she told me she wanted to get back with me after this break I said I needed a little longer at which she went off the rails at,which in turn made me angry at why she couldn't understand. Likei said this was the main reason for us splitting up, but since then (2 months ago) pathetic I know but every night since I've struggled to sleep, cried everyday and have started to struggle with my uni work. I've tried to ring her - no answer, evendrove to her house 100 miles away from my uni on numerous occasions but again no answer. I need help as I love her so much and deep down I know she does, just please help. Thanks tom.

I'd just like to add some very personal facts as well, so here it go's. Whilst being with her a series of very unfortunate events happened, number 1. Whilst walking home one day katie (my ex) was raped. Number 2. Whilst together katie had 2 miscarriages. We've been through so much together and I'm sure you can understand what I'm going through.

Thanks again.

She has things she needs to work out and your reaction was unfortunate. You both have your own problems so I would suggest that you work on getting your own act together and let her contact you when and if she is ready. You've been through a lot, true but those 100 mile unannounced excursions must stop. Concentrate on you. Make sure your life is in the right order.