My boss is on her second marriage, has been dating this guy for 7 yrs. they both own their own houses, and he will be moving in with her before they marry and selling his house. She is in her late 50's, is having a small wedding(about 80 people)and says they don't want anything for their wedding, but I would not feel right not getting them something, what do you get a couple in their 50's, both second marriages who already have everything??

For my friends wedding they also requested no gifts so I took several of my own photos during and after the ceremony (discretely) and I chose the best one and had it framed and gave it to them later on.

Everyone gets professional photos but she thought it was a lovely idea to have one that a friend took.

A bottle of wine or champagne if they drink. Or a gift certificate to their favorite restaurant.