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  • Jul 15, 2009, 11:46 AM
    PrincessRan
    I had rough sex. Why am I in so much pain now?
    I had rough sex on Monday night for barely 10 minutes... it hurt badly afterwards I felt like I couldn't move and I was having lower abdomen pain as well as I felt like I had to go #2 but when I tried nothing happened. We did use a condom...
    Tuesday I rested in bed all day hoping some of the pain would ease away which it did.. it wasn't as painful as Monday night.
    Today is Wednesday and I'm still in some pain it feels really tender inside when I walk.. I also started bleeding. Im not sure if I'm bleeding because its my period or because of the sex? I am actually very irregular with my periods I miss every other month and I don't have sex often.. I am also taking accutane so the doctor makes me take a pregnancy test every month... I just took a pregnancy test July 2nd and I am not pregnant.. so I know I'm not pregnant.. I'm just worried could this be my period or did he do something else... that's making me bleed as I do have some pain in my lower abdomen.
  • Jul 15, 2009, 11:49 AM
    Justwantfair
    If it were me, I would be at the ER for a check out.
    I can't even imagine sex so rough that I would be bed ridden for two days following.
  • Jul 15, 2009, 11:50 AM
    smoothy

    How old are you that you like getting abused like that?

    And if you are in that much pain, you were getting knocked around pretty good.
  • Jul 15, 2009, 11:58 AM
    Chey5782

    Yes, go to the ER and have them take a look. Rough sex can do a number on you especially if your body isn't fully prepared for it. Bleeding without a period is never good. It's possible that your cervix is bruised or you tore the vagi*** wall a little. Make sure you get checked out ASAP. 3 days of hurting especially like that is your body telling you something. It's a lot more than sore muscles.
  • Jul 15, 2009, 01:25 PM
    PrincessRan
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    How old are you that you like getting abused like that?

    And if you are in that much pain, you were getting knocked around pretty good.

    I don't like getting knocked around.. I'm 20... I don't know that night was a bad night for me I made a wrong decision.. now I'm worried I don't know what's wrong.. and ihave kaiser insurance and there not giving me an appointment until 1 month from now. :/
  • Jul 15, 2009, 01:33 PM
    Chey5782
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by PrincessRan View Post
    i dont like getting knocked around.. im 20... i dont know that night was a bad night for me i made a wrong decision.. now im worried i dont know whats wrong.. and ihave kaiser insurance and there not giving me an appointment until 1 month from now. :/

    You do not need an appointment for emergency, or even to go to an urgent care clinic. Those ALL take kaiser, don't wait a month, go in now if you are in pain and there is blood, even if it's a small amount. Don't be upset about having some play time, but do something about your body if it's hurting.
  • Jul 15, 2009, 09:39 PM
    Gemini54
    Absolutely go to the doctor!

    I have always had a very sensitive vaginal area and vigorous or rough sex has left me feeling sore, and bleeding slightly but never bedridden. Having your cervix knocked repeatedly can cause bleeding and it can strongly affect the muscles that hold the uterus in place making them ache, as well as making your bladder and urinary tract sensitive.

    However, any unusual vaginal bleeding should always be checked out by a doctor.

    Next time take care, and use lots of lube.
  • Jul 15, 2009, 09:48 PM
    jenniepepsi

    Go to the doctor!! I enjoy rough sex often, however it is not suppose to be so rough that it causes pain so long afterwards. A little initial pain sure, but it shouldn't last more than a few moments. Please go to the emergency room and find out what happened!
  • Jul 16, 2009, 07:20 AM
    smoothy

    Go to an ER that's on the Kaiser list of accepted practices. Then they will pay for it. You should never feel like you were beat up after sex...
  • Jul 21, 2009, 12:38 PM
    rnlgn28

    Rough sex is the best, but you shouldn't still be in pain... Go to the ER asap!
  • Dec 15, 2011, 08:08 AM
    divar
    I also love rough sex which I had on Sunday and monday;today is Thursday.am 22yrs. Right now(thursday) I can walk(the pain became noticeable on tuesday) though I feel the pain when I walk carelessly.I looked at my vagina in the mirror and I noticed a very sore light-ish looking colour around my pee hole(wound) and many cuts inside where my inner labias converge(where the **** stands out) and a lightish greenish puss looking liquid oozes out(am thinking its because of the wound).its so painful that urination is just unbearable but this is not the first time its happening to me; the other times it happened it always went away by it self with time but honestly the pain is alarming.. just put some vaseline on the visible cuts- I feel much better after doing that(putting vaseline) but if your insides are paining up to now-please go to the hospital

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