Never seen this topic before...
This is a unique problem that I am not quite sure what to do about it. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 14 years, living together for maybe 10. During the past 2 years our relationship has stagnated into more housemates instead of lovers. We are good friends and get along very well, just no sex or intimtacy any longer. I don't know why, but I'm okay with that. The problem is this: She has a full-time job, does all the cleaning, cooking, clothes washing, all the domestic in-door chores, while I do all the outdoor things. She drives a car I bought for her, although it's basically her car, it's in my name. Even though the house is paid for, she pays $550 a month toward household bills. Is it fair for me to keep expecting this money every month? Especially since she takes care of all the housekeeping chores? I want to be fair so please be honest with me. Thanks