The last two times my boyfriend and I have had sex, immediately afterwards he says he thinks he has "blue Ball" and then is in the bathroom for about 30 minutes trying to pee, I was under the impression that men only get blue ball if they are stimulated and then don't get to finish. My boyfriend did finish both times, is this normal? What exactly does blue ball mean? And why would he get it if he did finish? Confused??

THe guy doesn't know what he is talking about,, seriously.

Blue Balls is a fake malady, used to try to shame a woman into putting out for a guy who is too uncaring to wait or earn the right. Its BS, no man has ever died or even been injured by it... all it is simply is frustration... not a medical condition at all.

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Originally Posted by SweetBeth

the last two times my boyfriend and I have had sex, immediately afterwards he says he thinks he has "blue Ball" and then is in the bathroom for about 30 minutes trying to pee, I was under the impression that men only get blue ball if they are stimulated and then don't get to finish. My boyfriend did finish both times, is this normal?? What exactly does blue ball mean? and why would he get it if he did finish?? Confused???

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But he did finish, there was no frustration over that, so then why would this happen?

If your balls REALLY turn blue it would hurt and you would probably have a hernia.

Hernias have nothing to do with sex either

Its difficult for most men to urinate while they still have an erection...

Since "blue balls" is not a real condition, but one invented by guys trying to shame a woman into sex, the mere fact he even mentions it tells me he knows very little about himself. Incidentally how old is he?

He is 28

He may have a urinary tract infection. Does he have stinging or pain when he pees? If it persists, he should see a doctor. It's definitely not "blue balls".

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Originally Posted by SweetBeth

He is 28

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That is surprising.

ANY time something changes with your (in this case, HIS) body, you should see a DOCTOR.

Get his butt into a urologist before either of you tries to (mis)diagnose him.

At 28 he is old enough to know his own body, but too young for prostate issues... It won't hurt to see a doctor just to make sure the plumbing is really in order.

Thanks everyone!:)