I am so hurt and don't know what to do I have gone through sleepless nights and anxiety and lack of eating. About a month ago my fiancée left his wife who has been cheating on him for a about a year now. She filed for divorce in June. He claims there wasn't really a marriage after he found out about her. We met at work several months ago and hit it off right away, and we have been living together for about 3 weeks now. He and I both felt this was the right thing to do. A week ago his wife called claiming she is pregnant with his child after she filed for divorce and she didn't know at the time and says it is his because she wasn't seeing anyone else 2 1/2 months ago. My fiancée believed her after going to a doctors appointment to make sure she wasn't lying but now they have to wait on paternity. He told her he was living with me now and is falling more in love with me, she of course got angry and told him that he better choose between the baby or me. She also told him that if he chosesmme that she would make sure that he never sees the baby. He is hurt by her threats. Now I am hurt because now it comes down to who he is going to pick, her because of the baby or me. He says you he loved her at one point in time but it all changed after she betrayed him. He tells me he wants the baby and he wants me too. He crys and tells me he wishes I was the one that was pregnant with his child and things would be so much better. He also says he is now stuck between happiness with me or misery being with her but yet happy about the baby. I don't know what to do. Should I force him to go back to her? Should I hold on to him? Should I stand back and give him his space and let him decide? Right now at this point he knows I love him and that I would be there for him through it all and I am willing to be there for the baby as if it were my own. But I am lost I know this isn't his fault and I don't blame him. I am so confused and in need of some advise. Thank you. :(