I have a online relationship and we plan to meet in 2010 Jan.. And I messed up. She was sad over something I did not do and she gave up when she was giving up on something we both enjoy and love to do I got mad and insulted her by saying "get real it can be fixed" when I felt the pain from what she said.. I was being selfish. I didn't mean it at all.. told her that. How can I show her online I care and will support her in the future.. I have learn my lesson. But nothing seems to reach her since it is just words...

First of I have some questions:

How long have you known her online?

How long have you had an online relationship?

How old are the two of you?

20 years old.
Known her for about 3 years online.
Starting getting serious about 6 months ago.

I was just wondering how come you have not meet yet?

But to answer your question,could you send her flowers?

Redhead: good question and suggestion!

Do the two of you live in the same country?

Flowers might be a good idea. And a personal card where you express your feelings about her and that you're sorry that you hurt her feelings...

Since we met on a online game. And we have known each other for 3 years but I was not with her all these years. We started the relationship 6months ago. Its her birthday... in a few days and I sent her a gift. It takes 3-10days I need to show her now.. online. That I care and will support her. I know I have these feelings and I want to but she can't see this.

If you know her for so long, she will find a way to let you in again. Remember you have been a part of her life for about 3years. She is just upset and angry, but don't give up. I think by trying to communicate with her even if it doesn't seem to reach her, will eventually show her that you care about her.Goodluck.

There are e-mail cards.

Write a personal poem.
Can you ring her?

There is not much you can do on line,sometimes words are not enough,do what you can and wait,as hard as that will be,bombarding her with messages won't work,give her time to cool off and go from there.

If you live in the same country and you have a bank card, you can always order flowers from a local shop near her.

Have them write a card from you, you dictate the card, they write it down and add it too the flowers and then have the flowers delivered to her door.

(my sisters girl friend did this earlier this year. My sis GF lived on the other side of the world at the time because of studies, but ordered flowers, a card and delivery from a local shop.)

Also even if you don't live in the same country you can check into this if you have a visa card... or credit card...


Also I agree with redhead... there are limits tyo what you can do online and seeing as she is hurt/angry, she might need sometime to cool of. So it might be a good idea to not bombard her with messages.

But of ncourse you can always send her an e-card with flowers and an apology...

Why don't you call her and talk to her directly to sort out any confusion.

If she doesn't pick up, then write an email.

To cheer her up, sending flowers is a good idea, e-cards as well.