Does he really love me like he says he does ? Will he come back after his he's had his space? Or will he pursue his ex who isn't interested and he thinks she is ?

Love is an action. It's not what you say, it's what you do. Love is not something that is there and then it's not. If you say you love someone, your actions jibe with that. If not, then they don't. That's a question only you can answer. Does he treat you as if he loves you... and that's not SOMETIMES, it's all the time, is he acting with love? Only you can answer that.

Hey bumblebee,its hard to answer with so little information,but if he is pursuing his ex,he must still have feelings for her.

If your relationship started soon or before they broke up,you may have been the rebound,and he was not completely over her.

I can't say if he will or won't come back.

Talaniman Rule- Never pursue a relationship when you know that your intended is hung up on an ex.

That's a disaster waiting to happen, regardless of the outcome of what they do next.

Never be that swept off your feet by someone who is unsure of who their true feeling are really for. You or the ex.

If the ex rejects him, you're a rebound, a nurse to his wounded pride, not an equal, not an equal party to build a healthy relationship with.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Talaniman Rule- Never pursue a relationship when you know that your intended is hung up on an ex.

Thats a disaster waiting to happen, regardless of the outcome of what they do next.

Never be that swept off your feet by someone who is unsure of who their true feeling are really for. You or the ex.

If the ex rejects him, your a rebound, a nurse to his wounded pride, not an equal, not an equal party to build a healthy relationship with.

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Agree (but had to spread the rep).

Sometimes the "challenge of the emotionally unavailable" is mistaken for "swept off my feet" and usually it's impossible to explain that to someone.