Ask Me Help Desk - Why it happens with me

Hi,
I had a great relationship with my girlfriend,all things were fantastic until she met new friends. She started avoiding me,she did not receive my call and always fighted with me over small issues.
Finally she broke up with me staying that she wants to be independent she wants to be free. Now after 5 months she had call me, she cried in front of me stating that she was wrong, she had done big mistake and wants me to forgot her. When I have asked her best friend about the whole issue I come to know that my ex girlfriend was flirting with other guys and after a period they left her one by one leaving her alone and also she had fights with many close friends.Now she is depressed and wants me back she claims she will not do such mistakes in life again, I do not feel the same for her any more or maybe I do not know I have same feelings for her but I had moved on and I do not want to look in my past but I cannot see her so depressed because of her mistakes,what should I do? Please help me

Mistakes are done by evryone...
You can very well forgive her. But there's no proof or guarantee whether she will not repeat the thing... especially when she had been flriting many guys. SO, what you can do is just forgiv her and remain with her as her friend, NOT BOYFRIEND! Talk to her, try to help her, but there's no need for you to have a romantic or very close relationship with her as if she did that again, you'll again have to suffer. I gave you this advice because I just read tthat you can't see her depressed and until you help her, you'll feel perturbed.

So, just go to her, give her a consolation, stayy close to her with a safe distance. As time will pass, if she really is transformed, then evrything will get well, and then you may again get a relationship as strong as the old one, but if she's still wicked, then there's no harm for you as you do not feel the same for her.

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Originally Posted by JOX

Mistakes are done by evryone.....
you can very well forgive her. But theres no proof or guarantee whether she will not repeat the thing...especially when she had been flriting many guys. SO, what you can do is just forgiv her and remain with her as her friend, NOT BOYFRIEND! talk to her, try to help her, but theres no need for you to have a romantic or very close relationship with her as if she did that again, you'll again have to suffer. I gave u this advice coz I just read tthat you can't see her depressed and until you help her, you'll feel perturbed.

So, just go to her, give her a consolation, stayy close to her with a safe distance. As time will pass, if she really is transformed, then evrything will get well, and then you may again get a relationship as strong as the old one, but if she's still wicked, then theres no harm for you as you do not feel the same for her.

Thanks my friend I know I stii love her