My husband doesn't make love to me. I only get hi about once a month and that's a quick one. No foreplay or kissing. I left my husband of 20 years for him our sex life was full. Now all my new man wants to do is wa*k what's wrong with me? What shall I do I'm sooooo frustrated I'm climbing the walls. Please help.

TALK to him about it. Open the lines of communication. You can't expect him to know what your going through and how your feeling if you don't TELL him.

Also, if he is just doing the wham bam thank you ma'am, I would let him know that he doesn't get his sex, unless he gets you off.

Another thing you can do, until you get it straitened out with him, is invest in some sex toys, a dildo and a bullet is usually all it takes. Good luck hon.

Sounds like the guy took you from your ex-husband, so the chase is over. He doesn't HAVE to have GOOD sex with you because he thinks he caught you.
Now you have to talk to him. Maybe tell him what you like in bed a bit.
Hope he listens.