I was wonerding, basically, I have real difficult orgasming. I know I can as I have twice but only with my boyfriend using his hands. I was wondering if there is any way I can help this and if it is a common problem. It's annoying!

Have you tried masturbating?
The only way to know how your body works is to explore it yourself.

This can be common.

How old are you? As soon as you tell me your age ill help you figure this out.

Practice makes perfect ;)

I agree with all of the above.
You have to know who and what you like before you can have a good "O".
Practice!

Age first, advice later.

So, how old are you?

I know how you feel, one guy used his hands and I Oed so bad.. but sometimes having sex it just doesn't happen. There's nothing wrong with you. You just need to try different positions and I think try to have your played with while having sex really works well. Oh and try to be on top while sitting on a couch. I'm telling you you can find spots you didn't know existed.