Experience with citalopram
I'm not really sure whether this is the right subject to be writing under, but what the hell!
My boyfriend of six months has just revealed that he has been taking the drug citalopram for just over a year, due to suffering from anxiety attacks and depression. A lot has happened to him in recent years, losing 3 family members due to illnesses, and also about 18months ago he lost his best friend in a car accident. I didn't know him when this happened, but got to know him about 6months after. At the worst time for the anxiety attacks he was unable to leave the house. He is now improving and can go to certain places but is still unable to visit places further away, for example; I go to uni an hour away from home, and he is unable to visit me because of the fear of panic and anxiety attacks.
His moods can be very sporadic and we argue a lot due to this, and also because of my lack of understanding of what has happened. I want to be able to understand and know what's going on, but I don't, and he finds it hard to talk to me about it, so I don't want to force him to communicate on the subject. I want to be there for him, to supporst him and understand, but I fear that while I am in the dark about his medication and what is happening to him, I am useless, and this will ultimately result in the break down of our relationship and friendship.
I guess what I would like is to maybe hear from someone who is on the medication who may be able to give me an insight into how I can best support him in this difficult time. Is it best to put our relationship on hold and just be his friend? How can I better cope with the mood swings and the arguments?
If anybody could help me, I would be greatly appreciative. I just want him to get better :(