My ex boyfriend all of the sudden starts talking to me and saying he wants to get back together. I haven't seen him in a year and we barely talk. He moved out of state and now lives in mississippi(I live in GA). He's planning on moving to Montana and working on his stepdad's farm and he wants me to move up there with him. Crazy as it seems, I'm actually thinking about it. If you read my last thread, my boyfriend and I are having some problems and my boyfriend shows me no attention anymore and basically wants to take a break. I've tried to remain faithful but it gets harder and harder every day that we're apart. And now my ex( who I was really in love with, but we just went our separate ways) wants to get back together and have me leave my life here all for him. I'm incredibly confused. I really really really do love my boyfriend, its just I can't stand to be away from him and I'm being emotionally deprived constantly. But then again my ex is showering me with attention and I him. My love for him is rekindling and I duno what to do. I hate feeling this way because I feel like I'm cheating on my boyfriend, but at the same time I figure he deserves it and I shouldn't have to wait around forever until he's ready to repair our relationship. What to do?

I'd tell him to PISS OFF!

I don't think it is a good idea to go jumping from boyfriend to boyfriend.
How about taking some time out from relationshipos to sort any issues you have for yourself.

What would make you think that it might be a good idea to go back to the ex?

You sounds way to confused to be with anyone at the moment so my advice would be to forget the pair of them and concentrate on yourself!

After reading this post and your other one I have concluded that you should not be in an adult relationship as you are way too confused for a 16 year old. The reason is you are doing adult things and should be enjoying this time in your life for the things that high school students do parties, school, friends, socialising, etc. This should be the time in your life to get to know who you are and where you would like to go with your life. Your dependence on older guys is a red flag that you really need to pay attention to. Get out of your b/f house and leave the older guys alone please for the sake of getting yourself together.

I'm not at all sure I'd move to Montana with him. You and he are quite young and he seems too wishy-washy to trust that he'll be able to make a lifetime commitment here and now, which is what you need if you're going to be persuaded to move to Montana with him. Otherwise you'll pack up and go and leave your whole life behind in Georgia, only to find out in a couple of months that he's again unsure and doesn't necessarily want to be with you. Then you'll be stranded all the way up in Montana, totally apart from all of your family and friends. I'm sorry, but all things considered I have to advise against it.

I'm sorry but I think I misunderstood the initial post. Is this two different boyfriends here? Then I REALLY advise against it, not because you have a duty to be faithful to your current boyfriend, who, if I understand the situation correctly, really isn't much of a boyfriend at all, but because for an ex to call you out of the blue like this and ask you to move 2000 miles away with him is just plain crazy! You'd only be setting yourself up for a broken heart and a lot of misery. As others have told you, work on yourself now, without making any cataclysmic decisions concerning your future.