I love my boyfriend so much, he does amazing things for me in bed that have me on the edge of being insane sometimes... I want to do him a favor though. So he glorifies my oral sex on him, saying its perfect every time... I know that's not true because every time you have sex its not perfect. This I realize and it doesn't bother me as much as it used to, but I was wondering what can I do besides choking on it--which I really am scared to do and uncomfortable because I feel like I look so unattractive chocking on his member... but he says he likes it.. smh.. I don't know what to do about that; I feel like a semi-expert on knowing how to make it ASTONISHINGLY GOOD, but there has to be more. I feel like I do the same stuff all the time, I don't want to keep the same routine but at the same time I don't want to decrease the standard and not meet the expectation. What else is possible?

Changing positions when you are oral will help

My husband says that's the thing that I do best. He's told me I should write a book on it. I just wish I knew how to explain it. Start by making out with him then kiss all the way down his stomach and start by teasing him a little bit. First of all be sure to use your tongue A lot. Take it slow at first. Tease it. Don't just suck on it. Flick your tongue on the head of it the way a guy would do on a girl. Move your hands around. Feel and rub his "boys" while your getting into it. Even rub his legs while you are doing it, it shows passion the more you feel around. Flick and run your tongue up and down the shaft of it. Even go down and lick his "boys" (if he likes it, some people don't like it but I haven't met one yet). TRY to go as deep as you can without choking to bad. When your deep throating it move your tongue around as much as possible. If he likes going down on you as well you can even turn around and climb on top doing a 69 move. (dont be surprised if he is detracted though and can't focus on you completely, but that just means your doing something right) when he's going in your mouth don't pull out keep going the same speed you was until he is completely done.
Also if you want to spice it up a little. They have lube that tastes like certain fruits and some lube that is tingling. There not expensive and they are fun.
I hope I could help alil its kind of hard to explain though
GOOD LUCK!

WOW it seems to me you and I do the same thing exactly! That's pretty cool. But the only thing I can't seem to fully pursue is the choking part. I don't want to like throw up on him... or anything but he likes it so much... I can usually only do it for like five seconds. I do everything else you said regularly though. Is it possible to put the "boys" and his shaft in my mouth together I want to do that, lol but I think I have a small mouth and am still very much a beginner with the whole throating thing... why do guys like that so much. I mean my boyfriend says its just the idea or seeing that his member is all the way in my throat and I'm "choking on it" why is that so satisfying a thought? Lol I think I sound silly and look it when I make the noise and subsequent face

Ask your husband if the deepness is what he likes the most.I think you may be putting too much emphasis on going deep,for me usually when she goes deep she slows down and so yes it feels good still the rythme changes.the deep part isn't near as important as the other things discussed,the rubbing all over,and going further down.try this when you need a break use your hand and lick the sides like you would a girl,I don't know why but it gets me

Hum.

No really. Hum while his penis is in your mouth.

I promise you that he'll like it.