OK so for as long as I can remember I've definitely been attracted to men on the romantic relationship level but at the same time if I see a girls naked body, it turns me on and I can't get it out of my head. Its so strange to me. I have a boyfriend and love him dearly and am so sexually attracted to him its unbelievable, however I can be just as attracted to girls, not just any girl either, they have to be really pretty brown or blonde hair and slim with nice boobs. One time I watched this video of two girls tribbing and it made me so horny that I masturbated, and sometimes when I'm angry at my boyfriend but horny I'll think about things like that instead of him... I would never really want to do anything with a girl, but the idea of watching girls do something either to each other or even just watching a naked one by herself gets me pretty turned on... soo?

So you are normal.

Please change your color back to black, some people have difficulty reading colored posts.

I would say that you are bi-curious, whether you want to pursue it or not.

I see no problem with this really. You can be attracted to females and not have to be gay. I check other women out for sure but I am hardly gay. The women's body is a beautiful thing and there is something sexual about it being alone or with another woman. I think what your feeling is fine. Are you embarrassed to be feeling this?

Yeah, I'm a little embarrasses I haven't even told my boyfriend. I wouldn't be as concerned if I was JUST attracted to them in that way, but OK, one time my boyfriend was fingering me and we were roleplaying kind of, he was creating this scenario where this girl was licking me and rubbing up on me and within 5 minutes I literally was a waterfall and he was just as astonished as I was.

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Originally Posted by j_ely823

Yeah, im a little embarrasses i havent even told my boyfriend. I wouldnt be as concerned if i was JUST attracted to them in that way, but ok, one time my boyfriend was fingering me and we were roleplaying kinda, he was creating this scenario where this girl was licking me and rubbing up on me and within 5 minutes i literally was a waterfall and he was just as astonished as I was.

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OK take the bold off your font. Its to hard to read.

Honestly I am the same way, but it means nothing. I can be that way thinking of certain men to. I wouldn't let it worry you. You sound more open to it then some women are. Would you consider bringing a women in to the bedroom? I maybe wouldn't advise it. But its OK to have attractions.

If you aren't going to follow through on the attraction, it really means little.

I am highly attracted to females, but I wouldn't cheat and I am not interested in only females. I think you are making a lot of what is somewhat normal for females.

If you are interested in following your attractions, then break up with your boyfriend. Otherwise, following through on any attractions outside of your relationship is cheating.

I obviously was being a little vague when I said I watched the video of the girls, OK yes I watched that and it was a one time thing--so its not a continuing action so it would be incorrect to say that I watch porn as watch is is pretty indefinite

Perfeclty normal. You are a sensual and sexual person. I know I can be turned on by a pretty girl. And I'm not even SLIGHTLY bi curious or lesbian.

Its all about the sex apeal. It has very little to do with gender.