I don't know what to think
Me and my ex have been broken up for months now, but we still do everything like a couple. We still go on lunch dates. We still sleep together. We still see each others families. We still tell each other I love you, but when I mention being together again she always sort of blows off the conversation, and say's it might work out. I did do some questionable things, but there has been no cheating, no verbal or physically abuse on either part. She does say she doesn't trust my word anymore, but why won't she commit. I feel like I'm filling her hurt while I'm waiting on a commitment. I'm afraid that I'm putting my all back into us and in the end she will move on and I'll be hurt. I don't want to give up but what can I do? I posted this a few weeks ago and got good advice to just continue things as they are. Has anyone been through this?