Lost my sex drive anyone see it!
Im 20 years old and for the last 6 months my sex drives seems to have taken a long vacation. I'm with my boyfriend for over a year now and this is causing a lot of problems in our relationship for instance this morning he asked for a quickie but I declined knowing I would just be in pain and he left with barely a goodbye kiss:(. We have tried it a few times but to start with I'm totally dry and awful tight once we manage to get past that il be OK for 10 minutes then next thing know I get a horrible burning sensation, once he pulls out that's it he can't get back in. other times it hurts if he goes into far then after I could have small traces of blood on my underwear and it would burn me when I urinate. The worst thing about all this is he sometimes says I'm not attracted to him anymore which really hurts me other times he's understanding. Oh and we tried lube last week which worked for good while but after 20mins started wearing off. Both of us are getting very frustrated now with this so please please help me?