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Now this from a guy who repeatedly said if I wasn't going to be there he would only go for a day and that's it, OK... I get that.
But you are going to be there, and so is he, that's not confusing at all.
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So I decided to bunk with a group because money is tight. I'm sure it's tight for him as well, but more tight for me right now.
That's exactly why he is going to do what your doing, bunk with friends and save money. How else can he be there where you are.
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So we break up and he decides that he wants to stay the whole three to four days and bunk with me and our friends? Why would someone do that??
Kind of obvious, to be with you.
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So he's not going to talk to me, the girl he just broke up with but he's going to bunk with me and a bunch of other people in a hotel room days after breaking up..?
Can anyone explain this?
He will be there with you and he knows your going to take him back.
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I am trying to be as nice as I can but what in God's name is going on here...
Your allowing him back in your life, and he knows you'll take him back. Geez, you are the one calling him over, and over, to clear the air? Yeah right, your ready to get back together.
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Whey would he say if it's OK with me and then stay there for 3 days... and then won't even speak to me on the phone??
Oh come on, your not that naïve, you know good and well he is looking to hook back up. Come on now!
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Is this nuts? I thought he was just trying to keep an eye on me.. but now... I have NO CLUE.
Yes you do, you are just thrown off with is avoiding talking to you, but you know this spat is over and he is making sure you miss him enough to take him back, because your ready to end this confusion over this break up.
There is no way he lets you go without him. You know that. Your both stubborn, so of course he will avoid you till then.
If you didn't want his company, you would have said so. You both must be young, with this drama, and relationship dance between you. Just as I thought, you both are just stubborn.