Is it worth staying in a relationship, when the guy does not know what he wants?
We have been together for almost 6 years. We were living together for the fist 3 years and then he decided to study and therefore he moved to another city. I supported his idea and even helped him with his application process. Since 3 years now we are seeing each other just weekends or even less often. We both feel that relationship is not that deep anymore, as we both live separate lives -- different friends, etc.
Around a year ago we had a crisis, where he was not sure what he wants in his life. He was asking for space but did not want to loose me. Well, it was a hard time for me as I still love him, but somehow with time it got better. Now the same situation is coming again -- when he is with me, he is just into all the phone calls with his friends and I feel like he is here, but not really with me. I told him what I felt and that I was not sure I wanted to continue in this kind of relationship. He reacted very sad and asked me to wait for him until he finished this school so we could work our issues out.
I do not know what to do... I love so much. He tells me often that he loves me a lot and suffers as well. I am sure there is not another girl. It is just that I can not understand why he does not want to work on it now. It seems like his school and friends are more important to him than me. And this hurts my proud and my feelings. Should I wait for him or should I just forget him? I love him very much and we were planning on spending our lives together... I do not want to make a mistake...
I am very confused...