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  • Jul 3, 2009, 05:51 AM
    OCD738
    No Interest in Sex
    I have no interest in women or men and am in my mid-20's. Could it be that I am basically non-sexual. Its not that I mind but its just that I am odd in this way and wondered if some people just don't develop any sexual attractions. I have all the physical traits and just no mental attraction. When I was a teenager my mother thought I may be gay, but I have no interest in men or women other then just being friends. I know I am not gay and rather just non-sexual. I saw pornagraphy in high school once and found it ugly just like looking at photos of war victims at the time. So I just wondered if some people may be like this. I do have learning disabilities and so I figure some of it may be linked to this.
  • Jul 6, 2009, 04:26 AM
    megamanhood

    You are normal. Different people have different perceptions towards sexuality and some opt to stay celibrate their whole life.

    No point forcing yourself doing things you dislike. Just be yourself and enjoy life while it lasts.
  • Jul 6, 2009, 11:38 AM
    LovesTheSun13
    If you've always been this way, that means you are asexual. Some people who are asexual have relationships and marriages with people but don't have sex at all, but are just as happy as heterosexual people. Nothing is wrong with you!
  • Jul 6, 2009, 11:43 AM
    jenniepepsi

    Its also possible that you have simply not found that one special person that 'does it for you' you know? Its perfectly normal :) relax.
  • Jul 6, 2009, 03:33 PM
    N0help4u

    I was pretty much like you in my teens and early 20's. It's fine you just have different interests and view people as people rather than sexual. It just might take the right one to change your out look.

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