Dealing with a difficult co worker
I have a problem with one of my co workers and I´m wondering how to resolve it.
He is 45 years old, but seems to be very childish, very isolated (has no friends outside work) and has never been with another person. Sexual relationships scare him and he has told us many times he doesn´t want to be with anybody. He speaks in a loud falsetto voice which is driving me nuts and talks on and on about cars and soft porn movies.
I get together regularly with my co workers and he is always there. He dominates the whole room, speaks about topics we do not like, but although we´ve talked about it, we don´t see how to exclude him. He just comes over and it doesn´t matter if he´ invited or not.
My other friends say we cannot do anything so we try to talk about something else and ignore him. However, I feel really upset. He is always picking on me because I tell him off, so he keeps trying to wind me up. Even if I let it slide, I cannot stand it anymore. I wonder what I can do to give him less power and tune him out.