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  • Jul 1, 2009, 10:59 AM
    CaffeineJ
    I need to know who my baby's father is!
    I just found out yesterday I am pregnant. I had sex on days 9 and 11. I then had sex with a different partner on days 15 and 16. I know this may be impossible but I am trying to see if there is a way to tell when I got pregnant. Who this baby's father is will determine what I want to do about the situation.
  • Jul 1, 2009, 11:04 AM
    N0help4u

    There is no way to tell for 100% certainty that I know of until the baby is born and a paternity test is done.
    4 different guys within one week it could be any one of them.
    If they had been further apart like a month span it would be a bit easier to narrow it down a bit.
    If your gynie can give you an exact due date you might be able to figure out who it more likely might be.
  • Jul 1, 2009, 11:05 AM
    s_cianci
    The only way to be sure is to get each potential father DNA tested. You can get a court order, as a prelude to taking action for child support once the father is determined. Understand of course that you'll be opening quite a can of worms with many emotional and legal repercussions.
  • Jul 1, 2009, 11:07 AM
    J_9
    Unfortunately there is no way to know until the baby is born and a DNA test is done. We can give an educated guess according to your LMP, but that is NOT proof.
  • Jul 1, 2009, 11:12 AM
    CaffeineJ
    I need to know who my baby's father is! Part 2
    I just posted a question but I don't think I worded it correctly. There were only 2 partners for the month, those were the dates I was with both of them. If that makes any difference.
  • Jul 1, 2009, 11:16 AM
    J_9
    <threads merged>

    Please keep your questions and answers in the same place. Starting new threads only causes confusion.

    It makes no difference whether you were with 2 or 4 men. You will still have to wait until the baby is born for a DNA test.

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