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  • Jun 30, 2009, 01:57 PM
    cheatedon09
    Is my wife cheating
    What is there that I can do or say to find out if my wife is cheating on me? She hides her phone and erases her text messages
  • Jun 30, 2009, 02:15 PM
    liz28

    You can ask her and see + hear her response. If she gets defensive then something is up. Read her body language.

    Or you can hire a PI. If she has a sims card with her phone you can buy a sim card reader and it will download all of her text messages (including the ones she deleted) to the device then you connect it to a computer and read away.
  • Jun 30, 2009, 02:17 PM
    esharpe123
    I've heard the quote that if you suspect that their cheating, then they probably are. It seems very odd that she would delete/hide text messages from you. I would be VERY curious if I were you.
  • Jun 30, 2009, 02:28 PM
    slapshot_oi
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by cheatedon09 View Post
    what is there that i can do or say to find out if my wife is cheating on me? she hides her phone and erases her text messages

    Got bad news for you, if you're suspect of her cheating, then she probably is.

    Sorry.
  • Jun 30, 2009, 08:03 PM
    talaniman

    Have you asked her about it?
  • Jun 30, 2009, 08:18 PM
    melodyfeliz

    Well you can try talking to her looking at he phone bill n calling the number she text n speak to the guy n find out. While she sleeps find her phone and go through it. Good luck
  • Jun 30, 2009, 11:30 PM
    Gemini54
    Ask her. There is nothing better than the direct approach.

    I assume you know your wife well enough by now to 'read' her response.

    If she's hiding her phone and erasing her texts, it's not a good sign. Having said that, sometimes we can be paranoid for no good reason.
  • Jun 30, 2009, 11:33 PM
    jlove09

    Ask her directly. Always good to keep the communication open.
  • Jul 1, 2009, 05:29 AM
    Romefalls19

    Just ask her.

    Or hire a PI and you can go that route
  • Jul 1, 2009, 05:53 AM
    talaniman

    Since you give very little info, why do you think she is cheating? Is it just her privacy of her cell phone that makes you suspicious? Does she disappear all the time? Stay at work to long? Go out a lot?

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