My husband had baby with my friend
Four and a half years ago my husband had an one night stand with a very close friend of mine stacy, only I didn't know until she showed up at our door with a baby 4 months old. Claiming that nolan was the father. ( nolan is my husband) I knew she was pregnant since I was pregnant as well and we hung out together all the time, she told me that her friend jimmy was the father but she had to get a paternity test because there was a few other possibilities. Anyway after she told us that her baby was Nolans We did a paternity test and it was true a month later Nolan was served with court papers to go to court about child support, there was a mistake in dates on his court paper and he missed the court date so stacy was awarded with $375 a month so one month after we found out stacys baby was his he already owed her $1875 in child support the only problem with that is our combined income is only 20,000 a year so this is 3 and half years later and it hasn't been paid because we can't afford it, he and I would both like to get this off our chest and be able to pay a decent amount of money but I don't know how we can afford $375 a month, what should we do?