Here's the deal, I got married a month ago and this past weekend I told my wife what had happened at my bachelor party, a stripper began to give me oral during a lap dance but I stopped it after only seconds. My wife and I did not have sex since that incident because I COULD NOT risk giving her a STD and so I told her what happened. I know I broke her heart and I will never be able to forgive myself. She wants to go to marriage counseling and possibly give it a try but I'm not even sure I deserve it. How can I win back the trust of the women I love with all my heart and soul?