I love someone she is also married. I am not able to take out her from my mind. I love her so much. First thing I see her in the morning in my mind. I am so filled with her. I always think of her. I am also married. I am not able to take her out from my mind.

What is your question?

1- are you both having an affair with each other?

If you are seeing her I suggest you end the affair or your marriage. Does your wife know about your unfaithful behavior?

This to me sounds more like lust and you sound like an impulsive person. Being impulsive is never good, you usually end in a place where you never wanted to be.

If your having problems in your marriage I suggest you
a) talk to your wife about it instead of day dreaming about another
b) go to couples counseling or seek a divorce attorney.


Please start thinking with your other head.

Sarah

That's not love... thats lust. You need to learn the difference first of all. They are NOT the same at all.

It does sound like lust yes, but as we all kow its hard to overcome lust..

If your not happy in your marriage and you have no intension of making your marriage work don't give your wife false hope by going to couples counseling (Mudweiser I don't mean to disagree with you I just think if that scenario is the case it would be better?)
And don't break up the other marriage by causing problems and tension in the marriage.. This will only end up in heart ache for your wife and the other couple and you.. You need to play your cards right..

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It does sound like lust yes, but as we all kow its hard to overcome lust..

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Its not that hard to overcome lust... trust me... I deal with lust frequently... Has nothing to do with love of my wife. Best way to deal with lust is to avoid the person to which this lust is directed... and it will take care of itself absent the temptation.

Give it some time, it will go away. Just make sure that you are NOT in contact with this other person. Concentrate on your wife ONLY.

I call that fantasy, and its best kept within the fantasy world.

I think we all have lusts and fantasies.