My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now. We use to get alone well, but lately we've been arguing about the smallest things. We use spend time together but now we spend time every now and then. We also use to chat on the phone for hours and now we talk but just not as much. An then the other day he broke up with me because of this big argument but he hurried and apologized to me and we got back together. I feel like its someone else but when I ask he tells me I'm worrying myself too much and that he won't do that to me. I really don't know what to do because I really like him and I don't want him to do anything to hurt me but if he doesn't want me because he feels someone else is better I don't want to waste any time! What do I do? :confused:

He may not be cheating on you. This could simply be the calm after the storm. When you find someone new, the passion runs SO deeply that it burns like fire. But sooner or later, that fire will dim. This is normal.

Do you still love him? If so, fight for this relationship. Talk to your school counselor, or see a private counselor and get to the bottom of why the relationship has 'gone stale'

It dosen't really matter if he's cheating on you anymore. The point is, you don't trust his word. Without trust, there's no relationship.

If you don't think that he can earn back your trust, then don't the suffering and end the relationship.

OK the first few munths is like all fun and games rite then it seems like your going threw heck but then you will think he is the only one for you then you will start going on dates movies,dinner that kind of stuff it sounds like your goinng threw the same thing I went threw if he was loving enough to come back I don't think he would be cheating on you but just trying to figure out if everything will be OK

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Originally Posted by jenniepepsi

he may not be cheating on you. this could simply be the calm after the storm. when you find someone new, the passion runs SO deeply that it burns like fire. but sooner or later, that fire will dim. this is normal.

do you still love him? if so, fight for this relationship. talk to your school councellor, or see a private councellor and get to the bottom of why the relationship has 'gone stale'

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Yes I love him

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Originally Posted by area51Nmore

ok the first few munths is like all fun and games rite then it seems like your goin threw heck but then you will think he is the only one for you then yall will start going on dates movies,dinner that kinda stuff it sounds like your goinng threw the same thing i went threw if he was loving enough to come back i dont think he would be cheating on you but just trying to figure out if everything will be ok

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I hope so because when he broke up with me I was so shocked I didn't even respond back but he came right back and I do like I'm fighting for no reason in this relationship but I do feel that he loves me I just don't want to be somebody else

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Originally Posted by area51Nmore

ok the first few munths is like all fun and games rite then it seems like your goin threw heck but then you will think he is the only one for you then yall will start going on dates movies,dinner that kinda stuff it sounds like your goinng threw the same thing i went threw if he was loving enough to come back i dont think he would be cheating on you but just trying to figure out if everything will be ok

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I hope so because when he broke up with me I was so shocked I didn't even respond back but he came right back and I do like I'm fighting for no reason in this relationship but I do feel that he loves me I just don't want it to be somebody else