I again don't know how to get a sophomore out of my head and I don't know what to do. I am a freshmen and I live a couple blocks away from him. I never talk to him and hardly ever see him. I am afraid to talk to him and if I knock on his door I know his mom won't care but she will probably email my mom and my mom will yell at me for dreaming and talking to a boy. We car pooled with him for school and it was so much fun. I have 2 sisters one is older and one is younger. I try to let them come with me and talk to him but it is not really working. He goes to orchard lake st. marys. I know I sound crazy. And if he saw this he would probably never want to talk to me. What should I do to either get him out of my head or start seeing him somehow without hurting myself. Please help me. I really need good advise.

Try talking to him, it's the only normal mature thing to do. Otherwise you will be looked over, make yourself noticed and stand out.

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Originally Posted by SOCCERGAL

I again dont know how to get a sophomore out of my head and i dont know what to do. i am a freshmen and i live a couple blocks away from him. i never talk to him and hardly ever see him. i am afraid to talk to him and if i knock on his door i know his mom wont care but she will probably email my mom and my mom will yell at me for dreaming and talking to a boy. we car pooled with him for school and it was so much fun. i have 2 sisters one is older and one is younger. i try to let them come with me and talk to him but it is not really working. he goes to orchard lake st. marys. i know i sound crazy. and if he saw this he would probably never want to talk to me. what should i do to either get him out of my head or start seeing him somehow without hurting my self. please help me. i really need good advise.

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Try to get a group of friends together, maybe one of your friends is more outgoing than you are. Then have one of them talk to him and invite him over to a pool party or something like that. The only real way that you're going to get over something like this though is to suck it up and do it. You might embarrass yourself or something like that, but that's part of life.

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Originally Posted by SOCCERGAL

I again dont know how to get a sophomore out of my head and i dont know what to do. i am a freshmen and i live a couple blocks away from him. i never talk to him and hardly ever see him. i am afraid to talk to him and if i knock on his door i know his mom wont care but she will probably email my mom and my mom will yell at me for dreaming and talking to a boy. we car pooled with him for school and it was so much fun. i have 2 sisters one is older and one is younger. i try to let them come with me and talk to him but it is not really working. he goes to orchard lake st. marys. i know i sound crazy. and if he saw this he would probably never want to talk to me. what should i do to either get him out of my head or start seeing him somehow without hurting my self. please help me. i really need good advise.

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Why don't you take your own advice and just call him everyday until he asks you out?

Its called a crush, and you will have many of them. You can let them pass, or do something about them, like talk to the guy, or have a friend introduce you.