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  • Oct 13, 2006, 11:00 PM
    the gunslinger
    Pregnant?
    :eek:

    Well, I'm new to these forumns. And I figured I would get a general opinion on here about what's happened with me and my girlfriend.

    We had sex tonight, and niether of us noticed that the condom broke. I went off in her, and she's 2 weeks before her period. In short, well, primetime for kidmaking. At least that's what I understand. She's not on any birth control (our mistake, I know I know). Were prepared to take care of the kid and everything, no problem there. And of course seeing as how it just happened TONIGHT obviously we won't be able to know for at least 10 days or more... I think.

    My big question is, when should she take her pregnancy test to find out for sure? We guessed 10 days from now would be a nice round number but is that too close to her period?

    We slipped up somthin fierce I guess >.<

    Opinions? Insights? Loopholes?

    The Gunslinger
  • Oct 14, 2006, 06:06 AM
    J_9
    You should wait until about one week after her period is due.

    I am glad to hear that you are prepared for the consequences. Many people do not even understand the consequences.

    And, yes, it is primetime for kidmaking.

    I hope all turns out the way you want.
  • Oct 14, 2006, 07:37 AM
    the gunslinger
    So, if she gets her period on time then, does that mean she's pregnant?
  • Oct 14, 2006, 08:18 AM
    J_9
    If she get her period that means she is not pregnant. No period = pregnancy

    period = no pregnancy
  • Oct 14, 2006, 11:33 AM
    the gunslinger
    Another question,

    My girlfriend and I were talking and she told me she had her last period a week early. We were wondering, if tats the case, could we have missed her most fertile part of her cycle by 5 days, give or take? And if so would that have any bearing on the outcome of this?

    Were not really TRYING to look for a way out of this, just trying to determine our chances until she's able to have a test.

    We were thinking if she had her last period a week early that she might get her next one sooner, but of course this is all on the assumption that bodily cycles are regular, predictable things. In reality can't really depend on that, I know.

    Just wanted another opinion.

    Anyone?
  • Oct 14, 2006, 12:02 PM
    J_9
    You could have missed the fertile time, or it could have been her most fertile time. Every woman is different. Yes, it would have a bearing on the outcome of this, she will either be pregnant or she won't.

    If she had her period a week early, then it should be 3 - 4 weeks later when she should have another. It all depends on her cycle, most women have a 28 day cycle. That means that she would start her period 28 days after the first day of her last cycle.

    How old are you both, if I may ask?
  • Oct 14, 2006, 12:15 PM
    the gunslinger
    You certainly may :).

    She is 20, and I am 23. Were both prepared to deal with it all ourselves, were just thinking about what her parents will say, haha... A bit of a shock to them because to don't exactly know about me and her being together yet.

    This is the first time a condom has ever broken for me so, just trying to understand everything. Either way everything will be OK though.

    Thanks so much for your patience with answering all my q's :)

    Like your booties on your pic by the way :D

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