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  • Jun 25, 2009, 11:40 PM
    tomjordan
    Confused about erection
    Hi everyone
    I am male 26, tall, slim(may be under weight),
    My problem is that
    When my penis is erected,just after few minutes(1 or 2) it leaks saliva like liquid(may be pre ).
    And I do not last longer(just about 5 mins).
    Whether I am only misunderstanding it as a problem or it is real?
    Please guide me to identify my problem.
    Thanks in advanced.
  • Jun 25, 2009, 11:49 PM
    simoneaugie

    For many men, it's totally normal to secrete fluid before ejaculation. The fluid is not a problem at all. It lubricates the penis for easier entry into the vagina.

    When you say that you do not last long, about 5 minutes, is that from beginning to end? You can increase the time with practice and certain techniques. Women usually like sex to last longer.
  • Jun 26, 2009, 11:32 AM
    tomjordan
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by simoneaugie View Post
    For many men, it's totally normal to secrete fluid before ejaculation. The fluid is not a problem at all. It lubricates the penis for easier entry into the vagina.

    When you say that you do not last long, about 5 minutes, is that from beginning to end? You can increase the time with practice and certain techniques. Women usually like sex to last longer.

    Thanks for reply.
    Yes as you said duration is 5 minutes. From beginning to end if I continues with it.
    I am unmarried and may be marrying in one year and that's make me worried about this time duration.
    Any suggestion please.
  • Jun 26, 2009, 11:37 AM
    nikosmom
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tomjordan View Post
    thanks for reply.
    yes as you said duration is 5 mins. from beginning to end if i continues with it.
    i am unmarried and may be marrying in one year and thats make me worried about this time duration.
    any suggestion please.

    You can always find other ways to please your partner. Pay attention to her needs before you get yours and then you'll know she's satisfied and the actual time won't matter. If you're getting married, you should be able to talk to your partner about this and find out what she likes. You may even find out that she doesn't have a complaint about the amount of time.

    Some guys distract themselves during the act by thinking about non-sexual things. Or you may want to masturbate ahead of time to get the "first bullet out of the chamber" and reduce anxiety.

    Also- who's standing by watching the clock. Cover up the clock. Watching the time will only increase you anxiety.
  • Jul 10, 2009, 04:43 AM
    galwil
    Erectile Dysfunction (inability to sustain erection) is a very common disorder which most men face in there life at some stage for one reason or the other like high blood pressure, high cholesterol, diabetes, fatigue, stress, physical injuries, certain medication, smoking and alcohol consumption. The exact reason behind your problem can only be judged by a specialist and only then one should use the medicines prescribed. There are various drugs which can cure erectile dysfunction like Levitra, Viagra and Cialis.
  • Jul 10, 2009, 05:26 AM
    danielnoahsmommy

    The fluid although acts as a lubricant that is not its main purpose. Its main purpose is to clean out the urethra of urine etc. so the sperm have a better chance of surviving.

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