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  • Jun 25, 2009, 10:16 PM
    morgami
    Am I pretty?
    Hey, like umm... I have pretty lo self esteem, like I feel oveweight even though my friends tell me I'm skinny (I weigh 114 punds and I'm 5 feet) but like you, and all my friends are trying to tell me that Im pretty but I like just really don't believe them... I mean they say that about everyone... so I was wondering if you could tell me if I was pretty or not... so I have a link to a cupl of pix of me... so you thanks xx
    Umm Im the one with the lighter hair, and the blue shirt or the white

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  • Jun 26, 2009, 01:14 AM
    Clough

    Hi, morgami!

    If that's your pic on the left side of the page, yes, in my opinion, you're pretty! Whether someone is pretty or handsome is in the eye of the beholder, though.

    Whether someone is pretty or handsome is open for a lot of interpretation.

    If you're having any self-esteem issues, I do have an activity that I like to do with people on this site to help them with that.

    If you'd like to know what it is and possibly participate in doing it, please let me know on this thread.

    Thanks!
  • Jun 26, 2009, 01:20 AM
    GlassFlower

    Yes you are very pretty!
  • Jun 26, 2009, 08:53 AM
    AManWithNoName

    Sure, your pretty
  • Jul 2, 2009, 12:08 PM
    MangoPassion

    I agree with beauty being in the eye of the beholder :)
    But you are pretty, yes.
  • Jul 2, 2009, 01:03 PM
    mudweiser

    Looking for other's approval for your looks is really the wrong way to go when you have low-self esteem. Only because you still have not accepted who you are and loved the skin your in, your relying on other's opinions and that's never good because some people may even tell you that you are not pretty and pick at you.

    Also you are not overweight you are 114lbs at 5 feet, that's actually normal weight. By the looks of your photos your about 14 which means you still have some "baby fat" on you that'll fill out in places when you grow up.

    If your constantly worried about being pretty, in my opinion it means your bored. What is it that your doing this summer? You should start volunteering in your city or even get a part time job. If you like painting then start doing that.

    I'd also like to suggest to read self-help books that'll help you or read this online book for teens, I found it interesting:
    The Book of Lists for Teens - Google Books

    Good luck!
    Sarah
  • Jul 2, 2009, 02:08 PM
    Clough

    I do hope that you return to this thread, morgami!

    Thanks!
  • Jul 4, 2009, 06:16 PM
    morgami
    Hey thnk you guys sooo much... yes I do believe that people should accept you and everything but like it still doesn't help that I feel like everyone is judging me... thnk you though :)
  • Jul 4, 2009, 06:27 PM
    jenniepepsi

    I do agree you are very beautifull. But what's more important is what is on the inside and you seem like a very beautifull girl inside as well as out!
  • Jul 5, 2009, 06:25 AM
    shazamataz

    I just keep getting a message telling me I have to log into Facebook.
    I am not and never will be a member of those silly sites.

    It does not matter what your photos looks like.
    As has been said before beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
    I do not think my best friends girlfriend is very pretty but he sure thinks she is.
    Everyone likes different things.
  • Jul 9, 2009, 04:50 PM
    ineedanswers123
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by morgami View Post
    (i weigh 114 punds n im 5 feet)

    Um, I'm 5 feet and I weigh 123 o_o
  • Jul 9, 2009, 05:02 PM
    lazylana88
    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder if you think you are others will too. Also beauty pageants and modeling débutante may help foster that self-esteem a little.
  • Jul 9, 2009, 11:15 PM
    macman11393

    I'm 16 years old and I just wanted to say I think you are VERY pretty and VERY beautiful but being pretty shouldn't be all of it your personality I'm guessing is also very beautiful which is what I think counts
  • Jul 10, 2009, 09:11 AM
    LiveAndLove0923

    You are very pretty and you shouldn't let any person tell you otherwise. Because if someone says you are not pretty then they just have low self esteem on themselves so they feel the need to bring everyone else down with them and you just have to jeeo your head held high because you're a very pretty girl.
  • Jul 11, 2009, 03:53 AM
    Hollyy Dollyy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by morgami View Post
    hey thnk u guys sooo much... yes i do beleive that ppl shud accept u and everything but like it still doesn't help dat i feel like every1 is judging me... thnk u tho :)


    Everyone's pretty in their own way , I'm 14 and when ever I'm walking down the school halls I always feell the one who's the uglyest , :\ But you can't change who you are (:

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