Can you expect that a guy who is interested in you will call you a lot, text you during the day, come visit you unexpectedly and ask you to go out to do different things?

What can you really expect from the man? Does it mean he loves you any less if he isn't doing some of these things?

I want to know, I want to be able to tell whether he's being real or not. Whether he is playing me or wanting a substantial relationship.

You have to take your chances and see where things lead to.
It is very likely he is interested but you need to get to know each other better.

Wait... does the guy in question DO these things or does he NOT do these things?

In general, different guys will do different things even if they feel the same way about the same girl. There is no hard and fast rule.

I know some guys that will text and call non-stop because they like a girl. As for myself, I don't do that at all!

Your looking at this all wrong. There is no formula for what a guy will or won't do. No formula for what a guy thinks. Girls either for that matter.

The trick is have fun getting to know them well before you fall in to deep or trust them with your heart.

Even in the best long term relationships there is as much heart ache and pain as in a break up, or just dating. The difference is only how the couple deals with it. When they work together and overcome all the obstacles life throws at them that's great, but the celebrations are short as there will always be obstacles and bad days to deal with until you die.

Sorry but that's not romantic, but it's the truth. You just have to forge ahead the best you can and do the work, to get to the next day.

Just because I make it look easy doesn't mean it is.

So after that ramble whats really on your mind, T????

Ill try to answer this as best I can, but I'm seeing to possible questions from you.

1.)

If I like a girl I will go to hell and back for them, and I mean... to hell and back for them, the girl I'm chasing right now lives in Temecula 2 HOURS AWAY! And your damn straight when I say when she lets me ill will most defiantly drive 2 hours to see her for 5 minutes.

But that's me, I've made her a card from scratch with my impressive art skillz and done things that she couldn't believe a guy could do. BUT once again that's just me. Every guy is different.

2.)

Like the rest say there is no real hidden code, you just need to take a chance (cautiously) hang out with him and if he makes you happy your set!

Now who knows this guy could be bad with signs I know I am. You just got to take a chance.

"If you do not take chances, you will not find happiness.