My husband and 'not rising to the occasion'
Hello.
My husband has this problem that I was wondering if it was normal for a man.
We have been married almost 3 years now, and this happens maybe, once every 3 or 4 months.
Mostly I am looking for confermation of what I have already told him. He doesn't believe me.
What is happening is, last night we got into it, and it started good. He went oral on me and got me off, and we started with intercourse. And he was HARD when we started, however, he quickly went limp and couldn't finish.
This happens very very infrequently as I already said. And I told him it has to do with energy. We had been out ALL day yesterday doing bills and grocery shopping and then going swimming with our 5 year old. We were BOTH exhasted, and while women don't need very much energy to lay there and get oral sex, a man NEEDS that energy if he is going to orgasm. And it just wasn't there.
He doesn't think this is the issue. Is there anything else I am not aware of that may put his mind to rest?
Any other time he has NO problem what so ever in this issue and can sometimes go more than once in one night.
Thank you in advance
*edit* also, sorry for being so graphic in my terms, I did the best I could to stay 'clean'