What should I do when my mother is living with my husband and I and our two children but don't want to work. I have been laid off since the beginning of the year so I am now trying to go back to school for my masters.My husband has been working three jobs to support us my mother complains of us always leaving stuff around our own house because she may have a case of OCD. But I tell her that if she can clean so well here why don't she seek a job where she can use her talents and get paid for it but she's 50 and won't work in a pie factory. Now this is somebody that did not raise her kids for selfish reasons but I forgive her for her pass just would love to see her depend on her self before she rest her eyes. My mother was suppose to be here till she got on her feet but now it seems like she is not motivated in getting her own place.Help!! Should I tell her she has to go because she been here almost a year and no progress at all.