I am going to be honest and hope I get honest answers even though I almost know they would hurt but reality check is required for me.
I have been seeing this girl for past 6 months out of that 3 months she was in my city and now she is back at her home town. We were physically close although it was only making out.. she cares for me but she is not expressive.. she says she likes me but don't love me, while I said I love her.. she does everything that shows that she loves me, but she doesn't want to come in open.. at the same time I see myself obsessed, as we speak 2 times a day.. and everyday at night for about 2 hours... I almost feel insecure when I have nothing to talk to her about and its but obvious that I may not have lots to talk to her about since she is not doing anything at the moment. I almost never know what she is up to.. so I end up asking too many questions, and we end up fighting.. I see myself very very very emotionally needy, and we fight on petty issues like I tell her I miss her, and she only says that whenever she feels like it, or she don't.. she says I won't say if I don't feel like.. so we are there right now.. I don't know what to do.. I don't want to screw this relationship up.. I want to make it work.. is it hopeless can someone tell me what I can do with there own experience? Please. Thank you.