Hey... I'm a 19 year old male and I can't seem to ejaculate during sex! I am in a long-term relationship (now over 10 months) and scared I might lose it if I don't shape up in the bedroom...

I used to blame the condoms for not giving the full feel but now my girlfriend is on the pill we've started having sex without them, I have managed to ejaculate once before inside her without the help from my hand, but in the few times we've had sex without the condom I felt very very close, I have read many sites looking for help and have come to this one looking for more...

I feel that the main problem is that I used to masturbate a lot when I was single, sometimes even twice a day! And have gotten too used to the feel of my hand? Can anyone please help me either someone who's been through this before or someone that knows a lot about it.

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Let me start by asking if you are on any medication.

Nope not on any

Hmmm,

If I can't help you any, I still want you to understand that the pill is not foolproof. She can still get pregnant. Just ask my 20 year old son and 18 year old son. So pregnancy still can occur.

Back to your problem...

I am wondering if it is stress related at all. It may be an underlying fear that she will get pregnant, so your body does the opposite.

Just a thought.

Well my girlfriend was always paranoid about the condom when having sex always making sure it was on right etc, I don't really worry about getting her pregnant, its never really feared me...