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I Have A Problem Look I Being Having Sex For The Last 3 Years With Out Protection Because I Really Want A Baby, But He Always Come Inside Never Out Side But, I Don't Get It Why I Can't Get Pregnant, Even That Im Young I Want A Baby But It Just Don't Happen I Don't Kno Why Can Ya Help Me Please What To Do To Get Pregnant? any Methods
Okay, first of all, please don't type all your words beginning with capital letters. See how mine is? That is better.
Second, let's figure out why you want to get pregnant. Are you married?
How old are you?
Have you ever used any kind of birth control? If you have, what kind and for how long.
No I'm not married, I'm 19, I haven't take anykind of birth control in my life
Why do you want a baby at your age?
You are still SSSOOOOOO young. Do you know how much HARD work they are? For the rest of your life.
Do you realize that if you have a baby and you are not married it is so much easier for your boyfriend to just walk away and leave you a single mother? It can happen when you are married too, but it is easier if you are not.
I know but you know when you want something so bad and why because that's the most importnt thing for me a kid, I'm crazy wit baby and I know if I get pregnant my bby never going to need something from somebody ele but look I'm in college I want to be a doctor and I'm working in hospital this is my 2nd semester in college I know I can do this but I really want to know why I hvent get pregnant I even go to the hopitl for kids with mental illnes just to help then and I don't get pay but I don't care about money
Okay, you really need to speak in complete sentences and leave out the shortcuts.
You are too young to have a child. You can walk away from the hospital where you help, but you cannot walk away from your own baby.
Finish college first, start your career, then think about having a baby. If you have a baby now you may never get the chance to fulfill your dreams.
Mybe u right but what about if I can't have a baby at all? But tell me u don't have any advise just to get pregnant
Not right now, you really are not ready for it. Focus on your future and achieve your goals first. Then you will be ready for a baby.
You are still young. If you cannot have a baby at all, after you achieve your goals, then there is adoption.
I know, a lot of people been telling me that's not good but if I can't have a baby ill do it an adoption because like that's if god don't give me a chance to have my own baby ill give the chance to other kids to have a mother and a father. Sorry for typin like this wit ma erros on it but it just my keyboard have some little problem sorry for that
I'm sure you will make a great mother one day, and you seem to be a very sweet and loving person. But think about this. What if your boyfriend decides to leave you after you have a child with him, and you are only 20 years old? Then you will want to go out, meet new people, you will need a source of income, have to hire a babysitter, pay the babysitter, will need medical insurance to ensure your baby is healthy, buy diapers, stay up all night with the baby BY YOURSELF if he/she is sick, then get up an hour later and go to work to keep the medical insurance intact so you can take your sick baby to the doctor-it's hard. And I know you are probably thinking "i can do that..." yes you can. But you won't want to, and you are not ready. Most men at your age aren't ready for that either. I'm 25, have three babies, all on my own, I love them to pieces and can't imagine my life without them. But not a day goes by that I don't wonder what my life would be like at this very point, if I would have waited. If you ever want to talk, IM me. I have many perfect examples to give you of how hard it is.Quote:
Originally Posted by yassely
Do you have any siblings? Friends that have children, perhaps?
Here is an idea. Try offering to baby sit for a friend who has a baby or a child that is perhaps 3 or 4 years old. This way you get a feel for what it's like to take care of a child in your own environment.
This would be an ever greater experience for you if your friend has to go out of town, say for the weekend. Looking after the child will allow you to have some of the first hand experiences of looking after a child. Pay close attention to how the experience makes you feel, particularly how you'll feel at the end of the day.
How I can I'm u let me know
I always babysit my friends baby they always in party and thing like that and I don't like to be in the street like that and I love it you know why because even they bother a lot they make you happy I stay wit one of my best friends kid for 2 weeks and he's just turn 3 yrs and he so lovely omg I'm telling you is not a problem but you know you right in some of that you say
You click on my username and it will give you an option to send me a private message.Quote:
Originally Posted by yassely
Thanks
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