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  • Jun 20, 2009, 12:57 PM
    raychi
    Is he seeking attention or does he still like me?
    At school I'm not exactly popular, in fact I'm the opposite. I have a few friends but not many. So I was glad when the person I had fancied for almost 2 years asked me out. And I said yes. We went out for only 3 months before I found out he had cheated on me with my best friend. My best friend was very honest and admitted it and after a while my ex did as well. And that's when he dumped me saying that I "was to mature.". When we first split, me and my ex got on well as friends but now he's started flirting. It's only in front of other people though. When his mates are around he'll call me sexy and stuff like that. And it's the same with my mates. At first I thought it was just innocent flirting, but now he's started kissing me and touching me up. Even though we don't go out. I don't know what to say to him. I tried asking him out right whether he was attention seeking, and I never got an answer! So is he seeking attention or does he really still like me?
  • Jun 21, 2009, 10:35 AM
    Catsmine
    Sounds like he's bragging to the other kids rather than actually being interested. Next time he "touches you up" (if that means what I think it does) eitther smack him or very deliberately remove his hand from your person. If he continues you have the option of removing his hand from HIS person.
  • Jun 21, 2009, 12:27 PM
    shazamataz

    He knows you like him and you are letting him get away with all this!
    I agree with Catsmine, he is showing off in front of his friends and trying to look "cool"

    Just outright tell him to stop it or you will have him for sexual harassment.
  • Jun 21, 2009, 01:31 PM
    ipod_geru

    Girly D:
    He needs to stop that
    Cause he will lead you on and break your precious heart.
    I've been there
    Done
    That & got a muthatruckin' t-shirt .

    But he just wants to get in your pants sweety :/ Im sorry.

    Since we are basically the same age;
    I feel very protective of girls near my age.
    Its not everyday
    But
    Some guys will look at you and think you're an easy F***
    & that's not what you want.

    He is being a tease.
    He needs to stop
    Because if he gets with you again
    He will
    "Hit it and Quit it"
  • Jun 21, 2009, 01:38 PM
    Catsmine
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ipod_geru View Post
    Girly D:
    He needs to stop that
    cause he will lead you on and break your precious heart.
    I've been there
    Done
    that & got a muthatruckin' t-shirt .

    But he just wants to get in your pants sweety :/ Im sorry.

    Since we are basically the same age;
    I feel very protective of girls near my age.
    Its not everyday
    but
    some guys will look at you and think your an easy F***
    & thats not what you want.

    He is being a tease.
    He needs to stop
    because if he gets with you again
    he will
    "Hit it and Quit it"

    I think I agree with your sentiment but I'm not sure. I have trouble reading free verse. At least you do use entire words. Thank you for that. I will apologise profusely the next time I see you post in paragraph form.
  • Jun 22, 2009, 11:01 AM
    raychi
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ipod_geru View Post
    Girly D:
    He needs to stop that
    cause he will lead you on and break your precious heart.
    I've been there
    Done
    that & got a muthatruckin' t-shirt .

    But he just wants to get in your pants sweety :/ Im sorry.

    Since we are basically the same age;
    I feel very protective of girls near my age.
    Its not everyday
    but
    some guys will look at you and think your an easy F***
    & thats not what you want.

    He is being a tease.
    He needs to stop
    because if he gets with you again
    he will
    "Hit it and Quit it"

    You are so sweet! Lol
  • Jun 24, 2009, 08:20 PM
    cocogir123

    Seeking attention is the answer. He's just showing off how "he's the man he can get any girl he wants". Its not flattering ang quite frankly I think its plain stupid for him to be doing all those things if he's not interested. Really get over him and flirt with a cuter guy than him to see how he reacts.
  • Jun 24, 2009, 09:01 PM
    N0help4u

    I agree with the others he is just doing this as an act because he knows he can. Stop him next time.

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